This is not something I was not expecting. Her panic attacks have been getting more frequent and at times worse. I was worried she would have a panic attack on the plane which would not be a good place for one. I was also not a fan of her traveling at night because of the propensity of people to drink at the airport at later times and that could turn into annoying flyers that could panic her even worse in a small aluminum tube 35000 feet in the air.
We decided she would 1) fly out with me when I come out in January or 2) fly out with her sister and then back with her or, 3) a combination of both.
Not sure what will happen with the tickets I already purchased but it doesn’t matter. The tickets are paid for and the money is gone so not anything I’m concerned about.